How to praise and communicate in a developmentally appropriate manner, and tips on how to support your child at home

It is not uncommon to have these concerns when raising a child with developmental characteristics. In fact, the way you relate to your child is"Correctness."rather than"Is it developmentally appropriate?"is very important. A slight change in perspective can often change a child's behavior and facial expression.

Praise" looks at the "process" rather than the results.

We are,

• Done/not done
• Correct/incorrect

It is easy to look at children based on the standard of "what is the most important thing for a child in his/her developmental stage? However, what is important for a developing child is,The process of trying to get there."It is.

For example,

• I tried to sit until the end.
• They called out to me and turned me around.
• I tried to keep going and not stop halfway through.

such"One small step."By communicating in words, children are more likely to feel that they are being seen and understood.

Concrete words rather than abstract words.

These words may be convenient for adults, but their meaning may be difficult for children to understand.

Instead,

• You could wait in the chair."
• You were trying to listen quietly."
• You were trying to keep order."

Such as,Putting the action itself into wordsThis makes it easier for the child to understand what was good.

When communicating, keep it short and one at a time.

Giving too many instructions at once can lead to confusing information.

• first of all
• In a few short words.
• Calm voice.

Let's do 00 now, and when we're done, let's move on to the next step."How to Communicate with Prospectsto do so will also help the child feel secure.

When you can't do it, it's a chance to get involved.

When things don't go your way, you may end up scolding them. When that happens,

• Why was it difficult?
• Where did I stumble?

It is important to reflect together on "What would look good next time?" By asking, "What could we do better next time?"Learning Experience."The process will be changed to

Another support is not to work too hard at home.

The more parents think, "I have to do it right at home," the greater the burden becomes for them. However, support does not have to be completed by the family alone.

• after-school daycare service
• Child Development Support
• Consultant Support Specialist

Connecting with professionals will give parents more tips on how to interact at home and lighten their hearts.

Choosing to think together in the community

Many people in and around Numata City, Gunma Prefecture, have voiced their concerns about how they are involved at home. At Kuninkai, through its welfare services for people with disabilities,Support tailored to your child's age and developmental stageThe company is conducting the following activities.

• How to develop children's strengths
• What kind of voice fits in the home
• A way to get involved that is easy to keep up with

We value the opportunity to work with families on these matters.

Summary: Instead of looking for the right answer, we need to find a way that fits.

Developmentally appropriate"How to praise."and ... and"How to Communicate."There is no single correct answer to

• See the child's current state
• Focus on small growth
• be specific
• If you have a problem, you don't have to face it alone.

Just being aware of these things will gradually change your involvement at home. It is also important to ask for help when you wonder, "Is this the right thing to do?" It is also important to ask for advice and support when you are not sure if you are doing the right thing.
Let's work together to find a way to relate to children and their parents with a smile on their faces without any difficulty.

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