When family caregiving begins,
I don't know how to talk to him."
I tend to be a little harsh."
Many people are worried about this.
A single word of encouragement can make a person feel positive or, conversely, lead to anxiety and rejection.
In this article, I work with the elderly on a daily basis.A Professional Caregiver's Perspectiveto be immediately put into practice in home care.How to "talk to" and interact with themto the following.
Why is "talking to them" so important?
In old age, not only does the body deteriorate,
- More things I can't do on my own.
- I feel like I'm bothering people.
- Greater uncertainty about the future
It is easy to have feelings of
Therefore, even a casual word
Blamed" and "in denial."I sometimes feel that this is not a good idea.
Calling out to them is not just a conversation,One of the most important care giving a sense of securityIt is.
(i)In the form of a "request" rather than a command.
❌ "Hurry up and get dressed!"
⭕ "It's going to get cold, so why don't we get dressed?"
If you take a commanding tone, they are more likely to rebel.
Be aware of phrases such as "together" and "it would be great if you could do this for me.
(2) Look at what is being done.
When we focus only on the areas where we cannot do something, we tend to be negative in our approach.
⭕ "You got yourself up."
⭕ "It's moving better than before."
A series of small successes will increase your motivation.
(iii) Make eye contact and speak slowly.
Speaking while standing can be intimidating.
Eye contact as much as possible,Slow and clearIt is important to talk about it.
■mealtime
❌ "Are you still not eating?"
⭕"Let's have some while it's still warm."
The key is to talk to them in a way that does not make eating feel like an "obligation" but turns it into a "pleasure.
When you do not want to take a bath
❌ "You have to take a bath."
⭕ "It feels good to warm up."
Let them know why, but be in tune with their feelings.
■When operation takes a long time
❌ "Still? You're late."
⭕ "Take your time, it's fine."
Impatient words can intensify anxiety.
Because of dementia, comprehension and memory are impaired,
- Communicate in short sentences
- Tell only one thing at a time.
- I don't deny it.
It is important to
❌ "I just told you!"
⭕ "Let's do it together now."
Rather than pointing out past failures, be aware of how you can speak to them by focusing on the "now.
When you get frustrated.
The caregivers are also human beings.
It is natural to have days when you are too tired to be kind.
In such a case,
- Take a deep breath once
- Leave the place for a moment.
- Talk to someone about it.
or some suchActions to protect yourselfis also important.
It is important not to keep the family alone.
When they have a problem with how to talk to or interact with a family member, trying to solve the problem with the family member alone can be burdensome.
Home care, day service, short stay, etc.Caregiver services can be a great way to incorporate professional involvement into your daily life.
By seeing professional involvement,
I often find myself saying to myself, "This is the right kind of voice to use.
【【Summary]
- Voice care gives a "sense of security".
- A form of request, not a command
- Acknowledge what has been done
- Don't keep it in the family alone.
The accumulation of these small efforts will lighten the burden on both the caregiver and the recipient.
The Taiseikai Group, through home-visit care, day service, short stay, etc,We support the care of the individual as well as the family.
I don't know how to care."
I'm having trouble talking to him."
If this is the case, please feel free to contact us.
＼ Please feel free to contact us if you have any problems ／.
Medical Corporation Taiseikai Uchida Hospital Community Medical Cooperation Office
(TEL) 0278-24-5329
Uchida Home Care Office
(TEL) 0278-23-7535
