I'm worried about my parents' health and their lives, and I'm trying to encourage them to use long-term care services...
They strongly reject me, saying, "I'm fine" or "I'm not that old yet..."
Many families have experienced this.
In this article,Tips and tricks for dealing with parents who insist, "I don't need care services."andHow to take the first step toward usein an easy-to-understand manner.
◆ Why do parents refuse caregiver services?
The first thing I want to understand is,There is a reason parents refuse to care for their children."That is to say.
I don't want to give up my independence.
Some feel that "taking care of someone else = admitting old age."
Behind the thought, "I can still do it alone" and "I don't want to bother you."Self-esteem and prideThere is a
They think that long-term care services = institutionalization.
Day care services" and "home care services."Care you can receive while remaining at homeMany people are not familiar with the
If there are still misunderstandings, resistance will be stronger.
Past experiences and rumors of others
For example, "I had a relative who had a hard time in a facility in the past," or "Mr. XX in my neighborhood didn't like being cared for."
Past events and images may be the cause of rejection.
Tips for family members
1. do not try to force persuasion
The more strongly you say it, the more you stimulate the "willfulness" and "caution" of the parents.
First,Attitude of "listeningTake care of the
2. start small
Instead of suddenly saying, "Use the day service,
I have a service that can help you with just cleaning," or "Would you like to go for a rehabilitation trial?" and so on,
Low hurdle proposalLet's start with
3. have a third party talk to them
More than family,Doctors, care managers, and community support center staffSuch as,
In some cases, the language of professionals is more acceptable.
4. visit and experience together
By seeing and experiencing the facilities and services firsthand.
It may change your impression, "Maybe it's better than I thought."
Do not force them to enter the hospital,A soft "look first, think later" proposalis recommended.
How can we communicate the benefits of using our services?
Not "for the parents.""I want everyone in my family to feel safe and secure."Let's try to devise a way to communicate that
For example...
- We feel safer when we have people coming through every day."
- I think it's a good way to live while taking a break."
- The most important thing is that you're doing well."
Not "service = something for the weak to use."Choices to protect your lifeThe key is to introduce them as
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Providing nursing care services mainly in Numata City, Gunma Prefecture.Taiseikai/KuninkaiThen,
For those who are considering long-term care services for the first time, we offer opportunities for tours, experiences, and consultations.
Examples of services offered:
- Outpatient Rehabilitation (Get well!)Short courses are available for those who want to participate without any difficulty.
- Small-scale multifunctional home (Iyashiro)Flexible combination of commuting, overnight stay, and visitation
- Home care and nursing servicesSupport system that you can receive while staying at home
- Group home Yuyu-UchidaHome-based care for people with dementia
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◆ Conclusion｜Wide range of options while keeping "feelings" in mind.
When a parent refuses caregiver services, it can cause worry and anxiety.
However,Respecting the feelings of others while deepening understanding one step at a timeBy,
The day may come when you naturally think, "I might try using it.
Let's not be hasty and work together as a family to find the best option.
If you are in trouble,Consulting with local professionals and facilities is another option.It is.
＼ Please feel free to contact us if you have any problems ／.
Medical Corporation Taiseikai Uchida Hospital Community Medical Cooperation Office
(TEL) 0278-24-5329
